The Bend Over Beginners Kit is the ideal introductory kit for couples who want to try the strap on experience because it comes with two smooth 100% silicone dildos, 78 inch x 4 12 inches (finger size) and 1 14 inches x 5 12 inches, so you can pace your exploration with comfort and safety. The Bend Over Beginners Kit features a lovely soft purple velvet harness made by Sportsheets, which is comfortable and adjustable (fits up to 50 inch hips) with an oring that can be changed for play with larger dildos and a pocket built in that fits a variable speed microbullet vibrator (included). The pocket holds the vibrator in place and allows access to the controls throughout your strapon experience. The harness itself has a low point in front that flutters over the strappers clitoris. Put the vibrator deeper into the pocket and you have a very sexy vibrating panty with or without the dildos. Did we mention the velvet is durable and hand washable. Use lots of water soluble lube for maximum pleasure. Never use silicone lube on a silicone toy.